<?php
$user = 1;
$result = mysqli_query($mysqli, "SELECT * FROM `cart`
LEFT JOIN `button` ON cart.id = button.id
UNION ALL
SELECT * FROM `cart`
RIGHT JOIN `button` ON cart.id = button.id
WHERE `user`='" . $user . "'");
while($row = mysqli_fetch_assoc($result)) {
print_r($row);
}